Last day of 2007!!!!!!

A round up of 2007 in a nutshell:
Great year with a few sad moments but looking forward to 2008 as I can feel that it will be an even better year.
Why you ask? How does she know this?
My answer my dear friends is this.........

1. Bill and I love each other and we have a wonderful family. My life evolves around my family. The support I receive from Bill and the rest of my immediate family is something very special.
2. I have a new grandchild arriving and as you all know my Grandchildren and children are my life and I love them all
3. Moving into our new home.
4. I will be 54 and a proud 54yo at that..............
5. I will lose weight and then I will become a healthier person.
6. Arty Pants has got lots of exciting BIG things planned.
7. I have wonderful friends. Remember friends are like stars. You don't always see them but you know they are ALWAYS there.
8. I don't know yet but I just know...lol

Have a wonderful New Year. Please stay safe.

My wish for you all is "2008 brings you all peace health and happiness."

Keep smiling and healthy and see you all again in 2008.

l

Judy

Christmas Wish

This will be my final post for 2007.
My wish for everyone is Peace, Love and lots of Family and friends to share this happy season with.
What do I want for Christmas? I get asked this from my family.......
The answer: to have them around me, for the day to be happy with lots of love and peace, to be able to see the faces of the Grandchildren as they open their presents, to listen to what comes from their innocent mouths and know that that is what Christmas and having a loving family, is all about.
Enjoy every moment and please stay Safe and look forward to seeing you all again in 2008.
I read these words on Ngaire Bartlams blogg They came from her heart and with peace and love and I feel it is very appropriate for this time of year, so please sit back with a wine and enjoy the read..

"So my Christmas wish for you , dear Reader, is :to see the lights in your life.... and not the shadows. To embrace to fact that you are loved.To rejoice that life is good, and that you have the power to change what is not good. If you have loved ones safe , and food in the fridge, and have hope for the future, then you and me are among the most wealthy people in the WORLD. And THAT is a GIFT, baby!!!
And so.....Whether you will spend Christmas at huge parties with huge gifts, or at home with loved ones and a good meal. Whether you are ready, willing and waiting for Christmas, or dreading its arrival.Whether you believe in a higher power, or simply in the power of yourself.However you choose to spend this holiday season, may it be....... your best yet.
Joy, Happiness, Love, Fun, and ALL the GOOD things to you, and those you hold dear.
But of all these wishes for you, my biggest wish for you , dear Reader,is peace. Real SATURATING peace. "

Ngare Barlam

Please keep smiling and healthy and again Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

Love

Judy

Only 7 more sleeps

til Christmas day. I get so excited. I think it is because I sit back and listen to all the little kids. They all a just aweinspired about this big man in a red suit.
The Christmas Lights all around and the Carols being played in the shopping centres always makes me realize that Christmas is just around the corner.
I do not agree with Santa being in the shops so early no do I agree with all the comercialism about Christmas but giving seems to be a better gift to me than receiving. Don't get me wrong I do enjoy a present but it doesn't have to cost the world and if someone has put some thought into it that means more to me than anything really big.
Christmas seems to hold a magical and mystical feel about it.
Peace and goodwill to all.
I still have some shopping to complete and hopefully I will be able to do that either tmorrow or Thursday.
It is my mums 88th Birthday on Thursday. We didn't think that she would make 58 let alone 88. Quite an achievement for her. She is the oldest living relative on her side of the family.
On Saturday I have a birthday party to go to for my niece Georgina. She is 4. On Saturday it is also Mark's new Girldfriends birthday.
Then Sunday it is Cassie's 4th Birthday. She is having a party on Sunday night. She is very excited about her birthday.
Then on Tuesday (yesssssssss Christmas Day it is Jodies Birthday) I don't know what it is with all these birthdays around Christmas but Happy Birthday to all having birthdays at this time and I hope that you all enjoy your special day.
I am looking forward to having some time off work from Christmas Day until I return on the 2nd January. The only problem is that Bill is still going to be working. Although he will have off on Christmas Day and then New Years day.
I am finishing this post with all my wishes to you all for a wonderful Christmas. May you all enjoy you families and friends and may peace and love follow you all always.
Keep smiling and healthy
love
Judy

I have very big happy happy happy news..........

I wanted to save this for its own special post so this is why I am poosting again.

I AM GOING TO BE A GRANDMOTHER AGAIN.

Melinda and Glenn are expecting their first child in June 2008. They are both just so over the moon.
Bill and I are also quite excited.
Families seem to grow so fast.
Bill and I were married in 1974. had out first child in 1976, second in 1979 and third 1982......
then our first grandchild 1999, second 2003, third 2007 and now a fourth in 2008.
How excitement.
As I said in my last post .....You never know what is around the corner...So be prepared.....It is not always bad news....
Keep smiling and healthy
Love and smiles
Judy

What can I say but ...................

Since my last post

• Mark had a seizure at work. At 28 and he had his very first one. He went down like a tonne of bricks.. He has an appt at the seizure clinic in Jan. until then he just has to wait. He was informed at work that unless he can get a clearance certificate from the dr he is not allowed back on site. So what does he do for money?????????? Christmas is coming up and he has a daughter to buy pressies for........
• Last night Jodie Bill and I went to an award night for Hampton Park Networking Group. We had a lovely meal and drinks and the powerpoint presentation was great to see all that had been accomplished over the past year. Then it was time for award.
• ARTYPANTS received a framed certificate for it's help behind the scenes.(Artypants (Jodie) did all the designing for the posters and large signs and was a sponsor for last years festival. This year apart from supporting the group we also did any of the photocopying required during the year and we printed the certificates for the awards night. Even though we are no longer in Hampton Park. We started in Hampton Park and we have a lot of customers who have supported us and we will not desert them. We now will also be concentrating on Cranbourne Chamber of Commerce but will keep our heads in at Hampton Park.
• As Secretary for the group I also received a Certificate and a gift from them for my support as secretary. The gift I received was a kneaded angel. It is approx 6 inches high and is made from bread dough and glue. It so cute.
• We are moving homes early January and from now until then I will be packing. This along with trying to organise Christmas is just going to be a hoot....lol
• My mum had another fall on Sunday...It look like she has broken a rib. This just goes with the broken pelvis and broken wrist... all in approx 13 weeks not bad for a lady who is nearly 88yo. She seems quite healthy apart from the breaks.
• I also have become a great great aunty. My great nephew Benjamin has a little boy Jett Phoenix. He was born last Wednesday 28th November. He and his Mum and Dad are healthy and I think his Nanny Robyn is still floating on Cloud nine. My sister Valerie would have been just so proud to become a great grandmother, it is unfortunate that she is looking down on hime from that wonderful cloud up above. That makes my mum a Great Great grandmother Wow

I am going to go and will leave you with the thought....
You never know what is around the corner.....so be prepared

Keep smiling and healthy
Love
Judy

What weather

Boy have we been having some extremes. Monday it was 36degrees celcius and Tuesday 37 then today Wednesday down to a top of 15. Go figure. But it was a relief from the heat.
I worked Mon, Tues and today I had the day off. I sort of bludged......... Yes I really did not much. I headed to the shopping centre after lunch as I had to excange some clothing I had bought for mum. It was tooooooo small. Boy I think it was more bother than what it was worth. One lot of clothing I had the receipt for and the other I didn't. I ended up getting it sorted but only bought her two pairs of summer pants. (1 Long and 1 short) I couldn't get any tops as they were all for the real youngies nothing that would be suitable all t-shirt types, so I didn't get any tops, I got some socks and a couple of singlets. So that should keep her going until Christmas.
I came home and Bill was cooking dinner. Usually I cook on my day off but he beat me to it. What a great husband.
Now I am doing some final things on the computer and then I am sitting and relaxing some more. I can't believe it.
This weekend Jodie is off to a scrapbooking retreat (Friday to Sunday) so I am manning the shop all weekend. Including the crop on Friday night and then up early Saturday and then back again on Sunday. Oh boy it sound very daunting. But I suppose I have done it before so whats the difference.
No other news on the home front, but will keep you informed if any pops up.
Thanks everyone for popping by, but please leave a comment, I am starting to feel a little unloved.
Keep smiling and healthy
love
Judy

2 posts in under a week

Imagine that, I have been quite busy but this week I decided that I will find time to post.
After my busy week last week with dr's appts, I am looking at that no news is good news. I haven't heard the result of the mamogram, but the dr hasn't phoned so I am not phoning him.
This week has flown. I suppose when you get older the time flies quickly.
I have commenced my Christmas shopping and only have a few items to get to cover the kids, then as far as everyone else is concerned I will worry about them later.
We are having Christmas lunch at our place this year and then for dinner we will have everyone. So I can see a very busy day ahead of me.
My mum had another fall on Wednesday, but again no breaks so I suppose this will be her life at the moment. She is very frail.
As far as the family are concerned all is well with them all.
Jodie Jeff Cassie and Chelsie are doing really well. Chelsie is sort of crawling and has four teeth. She certainly knows everyone by showing us a beautiful smile when she sees you, Cassie is Cassie. She is looking forward to her four year old kindergarten next year. She certainly is ready for it. She stays with Bill and I once a week and runs the house when she is with us.
Mark and Taylor. Mark commenced a new job last week. At the moment it is only casual, but hompefully it will turn into a full time. Taylor seems to be really happy at the moment. She has been going to a smaller school for nearly 3 terms and has adjusted really well. She stays with Bill and I every Thursday night and then once a fortnight she stays for the whole weekend. She also runs the house when she is there.
Melinda and Glenn. Well I can't say toooooo much at the moent, but will soooooon. I promise.
Bill Well Bill is bill and still his easy going self. I love him just so much.
The shop is going really well. I actually completed a page last week so hows that.
We are having a sale at the moment. We need to turn over some stock to enable us to get a stack of new products in.
We are closing the shop on Christmas eve and will reopen on the 2nd January. This will at lease Jodie and I to have a break, even though it is only a small time.
Well I am going to go and leave you all with
Enjoy every day, as life is too short.
Keep smiling andhealthy
l
Judy

Here I am again.

I haven't got lost, I have just been extremely busy as usual.
What with work, personal life, dr's appts and argueing with my dr, I am exhausted.
Work has been chaotic. Today Jodie held the First Arty Pants Birthday Party for a young 13 year old. We had 8 plus the birthday girl and all went extremely well.
We have also beeen holding our November clearance. We are trying to clear old stock to make way for a lot of new products.
My Personal life has been nothing out of the norm, except lately it is just mixing work and pleasure. It will only get worse with Christmas Silly season approaching.
Then onto Drs appt. I got told off by my doctor because I hadn't had my recent mamogram. Yes for someone who preaches that awareness is a cure, I have not upheld my end of the bargain. And for you who I have been preaching to....I am really sorry. My Dr tells be that it is not good enough and then my husband gets on to the band wagon then so do all the family and then do our customers and most of all Jenny. Again I am really really sorry. Yesterday I went and had my Mamagram and then I had to have an ultrasound. It seemed to take so long,
but I suppose I forgot. Well anyway it is over again for another year. I will get the results next week.
Now I have said I am sorry, don't expect me to do it again.lol
My Mum had another fall last weekend, but luckily this time she didn't break anything. When I told her I didn't know what we were going to do with her with her falls, she told me that the nurses are exagerating and that she DIDN"T have a fall. I thinks she must have forgotten. Oh well no harm done. Mum has put on so much weight in the last 12 months. When she entered the nursing home she weighed only 45 kg. Before she broke her pelvis she was 62 kg and now she is 59.5kg. But she looks so healthy
I used to have trouble getting clothes to fit her as she was under a size 8(ladies) now I have to buy size 14's, how's that for a change.
Well I think I have given you a run down of my life lately So I am going to love and leave you all.
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

I thought it was time.....

I should post again.
Been quite slow the past few weeks, it is about time that things slowed down for us.
Jodie and I went to paperiffic on Friday. Boy was that an experience.
Two prams later, hundreds of people and mad scrapbookers who didn't think that we should have had our prams.....You can imagine my reply to one lady (who by the way was about the 5/6th person) I told her in no uncertain terms that, 1. we had paid to come in and no one said that we were not allowed prams, 2/ If it wasn't for the kids where would scrapbooking be as most people scrapbook children, and last bust not least 3/ These children were the up and coming scrapbookers of the future and they have a right to learn about the craft. She didn't like me telling her off and walked off in a huff.
There were ladies who were so impatient to get somewhere that they would step over the kids in the prams just to get to the other side. Didn't want to wait for us to move. Even if we wanted to move we couldn't because of the crowds. We met up with Bec and Andrea and then we all took it in turns to go down the aisles and we left the kids at the ends. A much better idea.
I thought they should have had it at a better location, as it is always too busy for a small place and I think this year the location was even smaller. I didn't get the opportunity to sit and do any make and takes but I stood and watched a few and got some good ideas. Then it was time to head for the Trade event. It was great to put a face to a name. A lot of our suppliers we talk to on the telephone but do not see them in person, but Friday was great. New goods and it is sometimes great to see the goods in real life. Sometimes the computer does not do them justice.After buying a small number of things I realised that entry, parking and food cost more than I spent inside. I came home with $20.00. Jodie and I got back to the shop around 6pm and i helped set up for the crop Friday night then I said I would go home as I was going to open the shop early on Saturday due to the Cranbourne wave off for the moto GP.
I was home about 10minutes when the Nursing home rang to say that mum had had a fall and was being taken to hospital as they thought she had broken her wrist. I go to the Hospital and waited, and waited and waited. We were told that because she was not an emergency case we would have to wait. In the end I asked to nurse for some pain medication for mum, and she told me that she would try and see a senior dr, as the younger ones will not order medication unless the patient had bee seen by them. Approx 5 hours later mum got her pain medication and also an authorisation for her to have a x-ray(still no doctor). Mum had the x-ray and 1 hour later after at last seeing a doctor, it was confirmed that she had broken her wrist and had an impacted fracture. (This means that it was not sitting in the right place so would have to be fixed under anaesethic(sp?) but wouldn't be able to know for sure untill 6am Sat Morning after a consultation will the orthopaedic specialist. They wanted her to stay in hospital but after the last episode in hospital (six weeks ago)I didn't like this idea and and suggested that I take her back to the nursing home where she would be much more settled and then if necessary they ring to get her back in. I didn't like the idea also about an anaesethic(sp?) especially at her age.
It was agreed that she go home and we do it my way. I got her back to the NH at 4am and by the time I got home it was 4.45am so much for me opening the shop early. As of today we still haven't heard from the hospital, so mum's own dr will asess her and handle it. She seems to be coping quite well.
Thankfully Jodie opened early and Bill drove me down at approx 9am. It was quite an experience, watching all the motorbikes in the main street of Cranbourne. There were people everywhere. The Bikes had backed up for approx 4 blocks and there was entertainment and all. I expected it to be rather noisy when they all took off but no not so bad. They were waved off by Mike Doohan. The kids all had checkered flags and Aussie flags. They were quite excited. Then after they had gone the street was cleared and back to normal, quite astonishing. Then tonight after the race the amount of bikes, busses and cars coming back from Phillip Island was spectacular. The street was again lined with people. The kids out again waving flags. Jodie got lots of photos.
Well here we are to tonight again and I am ready for a sleep. So I am going to love and leave you all.
Please stay safe and love you kids and families. Tell them all that you love them Life is too short not to say those 3 small words "I LOVE YOU"

Long week!!!!

My FIL's funeral was held last Thursday. I think we gave him a fitting send off. Very emotional but very fitting for him. One of the songs was The Old Man sung by the Fureys. The first time I heard this song was two months after my own father passed away, when Bill and I went to see the Fureys in concert. I cried all the way through and last Thursday was no different. It has some beautfiul words and very fitting for a Father who has helped their children through thick and thin.
Friday was Mark's Birthday, 28 and still maturing. I think he enjoyed his day. We had dinner for him on Sunday night when all the family got together. Bill and I are in our element when all our children are together. It is great to see them all interacting well together.
Sunday Bill and I went to the nursing home to see my Mum, unfortunately I think she is going to be the next, although we never know. She is still unable to walk due to her fracture of her pelvis and I think she will never be able to walk again. But you never know Mum may fool us all. She seemed quite contented but still confused. At one stage whe said did i know that Judith's husband has a job at last ( I was quite shocked, as I am Judith and my husband has never been without a job since I have known him. So I am not sure who she was talking about) I asked her if it was bill but she said no I can't remember his name. So who knows.... aS least she is contented. Still not the life that she would want to live. Maybe this is not the place to state that I believe in euthanasia(sp?) but too bad. Since my father had alzheimers and he lingered on for years I have been a supporter. I knew it was not what he wanted but I couldn't do anything about it. and again Mum although contented and in her own little world, it is still not what mum would want. From such intelligent parents to people who have to have their arses wiped, not very pleasant. I get onto something better, sorry to waffle on.
Jodie was sick Tuesday (yesterday). but Today I have had the day off and it has been FANTASTIC. I even cooked dinner (meatloaf), I finished all the washing, drying and folding and still had time to myself. i feel quite relaxed at last.
I am going to go and enjoy the last of my day off, back to work tomorrow.
I hope this finds you all healthy and please keep smiling.
love
Judy

RIP Frederick Donald Davis

My FIL Fred Davis passed away today aged 86. He was taken to hospital yesterday morning at around 4am. When we saw him yesterday he was in a semi conscious state and breathing quite laboured. Today when DH rang the hospital they said they didn't expect him to last the day. He died from pnemonia. He is know sitting up on that bright star with his wife Betty. He is looking down on his family and telling us he is happy and looking after us all as usual.
My DH (Bill) is holding up well, but just more quiet than ever.
Even though they are old you sometimes expect that they will live on forever, but no We all have to go at some stage.
Not sure of the funeral date as yet.
He is notin pain now and breathing well at last.
Enjoy eternity Grandpa (this is what we all called him, I suppose it stuck from when we all had our kids and referred to him while they were around.)
Love all those that you have around you and never forget to tell the ones you love just that, that you love them. Thank your parents for what they have done for you and never leave words unspoken as it may be too late .
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

I've been a baaaaaad girl.......

Jodie informed me tonight that I had spelt Chelsie's name incorrect. I am not sure where but if I have I have to correct it You spell her name CHELSIE.....I am so sorry Jodie and Jeff and of course Chelsie. Am I forgiven?
I am also sorry that I haven't blogged lately.
What has been happening........
Days seem to come and go very quickly. I think it might be that I am getting old.
I am sick of being sick. I have had a cold for the past few weeks, ever since the opening of the new shop. Maybe I'm working too hard.
I am always tired. Maybe not getting enough sleep.
AM I happy? Yes, I have the best family out and I love you all so very very much.
What more can an OLD, HARD WORKING, TIRED lady want out of life.
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

What's been happening.????????

The last week has been rather hectic for me.
Saturday last week, we had a great day in the shop, when it slowed down at about 4.20pm I decided I would take a small break and play solitaire on the front computer. BAAAAAAD idea, I heard the back door of the shop open and close and I thought it was Jodie, but when Jodie didn't appear I got up to investigate. I saw a person wearing a black windcheater with a hood heading out the door. I immediately ran, but no one was there. I thought I was going crazy, until I came back in to the office and realized by handbag had gone, I rang the police and while I was waiting I then realized that my laptop had also gone. So handbag with money, d/licence, medicare card, bank cards visa cards and my working with children card had all gone with my bag. It wasn't the money but more the cards and all the running about applying for new ones, I was puzzeled as to what I had in my bag, as I knew it was rather heavy, and I thought but my purse and money wouldn't weigh that much. It wasn't until Sunday late morning that I remembered that my digital camera and my card were also in the bag. My card had all the photos of Melinda's wedding that I took. I know I have the professional ones but these were the personal ones of the reception. Bugger. Can't cry over spilt milk and too late to remember to lock the back door, and too late to not leave my handbag in clear view. I can only say well I'll have to start again. At least we were insured for the replacement of the laptop, the camera and by bag and purse but its just a pain. To know that you have been violated. As the police said I was lucky that I didn't happen to go down to the office while he was there. He could have had a knife or anything, so I suppose I am lucky. Maybe I should buy a tatts ticket.
Then everything going really well the past week with the shop and again on Saturday arfternoon at approx 4.30p.m I had to ring the police. This time we had a 13 yo girl dissappear from the shop. Finally after 20-30minutes of looking with her mother we found that she had walked home. I think last night I should have had a stiff brandy. My heart was racing quite fast with all the drama. I have decided that next Saturday I am going to be a lot more aware and nothing is going to happen.
That tatts ticket is really looking good. What do you think? It can only get better.
Well during the week Laura (customer of Arty Pants) had a baby boy, so congratulations to Laura and Dave and Kaytie on the safe arrival of Luke, your precious son and brother. Maybe a scrapbooker in the making.
Still waiting on news from Chrissy. She it due I think either today or tomorrow. Good luck Chrissy and Scott, can't wait to hear the good news.
Our first real full week of classes in Cranbourne. Started Sunday with Jodies 2in2, Andreas doodle it and transparency, Becs Staxs of cards and Jenny's beginner class, only one to wait on is The Kidz Klassz that begin next Saturday with Fathers day items. The other classes have just taken off and well recieved and so the kidz klassz have lots of bookingzzzzzzzz. Shae has done a sample for the Penz and the Canvaz klazzes still going to do the sample. If I haven't put in enough zzzzzzzzzz I just thought I would add some more because I think it is nearly time for me to go and relax and then go to zzzzzzzzzzzzz.
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy.

Time for another!!!!!!!!!!

No I am not going to rant and rave, its no use crying over spilt milk. Saturday I was sitting at the shop, and I heard the back door go. I thought it was Jodie coming in, as she said she might come in. No one came , so I got up and as I was walking up the back, I saw in the mirror in the class room a figure of a person wearing what I think was a black windcheater with a hood. I immediately ran. but when I got there there was no sign anywhere in the corridor, so I went back inside and found that my handbag was not there. Stupid me had forgotten to lock the back door. but then I realized that it was not just the handbag, but my laptop. I had only had it for about 4- 5 weeks. Rang the police and waited. Then I rmembered that I had cash in the h/bag as well. that was a bummer but cancelling all the cards and getting new ones and having to pay for them was what I am upset about. The police informed me that the computer would have been sold withing 1 hour of taking it, and it was a windfall for them, but not much I can do. After a restless night Saturday, I was thinking that my h/b was rather heavy, what did I have in it. Then Sunday Morning I remembered. MY Digital camera, and worst of all I had purchased for Melinda's wedding a bigger memory stick (1gb) and all the photos were still on the stick. I now do not have a camera OR THE PHOTOS. Thats is what makes it worse. I have the professional photos but the photos on the stick were from the reception. What a bummer.

I have spent all day on the phone cancelling all the cards and getting replacements but it sure doesn't help. I also have contacted the insurance they were supposed to email to me the claim form but so far nothing has turned up. Will ring again tmorrow. I have calculated approx $2500 - 3000.00 gone. in goods and cash. Well I suppose that is what insurance is for, thank god.

We have had a very busy few days at the shop and the classes are going wild. Jodie had a class yesterday and she had 13 booked in. All seemed to have a great time. Well done Jodie and thanks to Bec and Andrea for helping out.

Good luck to Andrea, Jenny and Bec who have classes booked for the next week.

Kids classes are slowly starting to fill up and Shae and I are doing the class samples on Friday night. Wish us luck.

Jodie has been very busy organising the monthly kits and I must say they are just scrumptious. Everyone who has purchased them has been raving.

Another thing that has been going wild is the mystery packs. we have people buying one then coming back for more.

On the home front: Mark is going great and his leg is slowly healing, Jodie has been busy with the shop and her two children being sick and now Jeff is sick, so she is snowed under with sickness. Glad she seems to be staying well. Melinda also has had a sick husband thankfully she is ok. Although Her, Jodie and Bill are a bit upset at collingwood being defeated by RICHMOND.

Bill well he had had my car resprayed. I do not drive around in an old taxi but a new blue car, a bit different to a mottley yellow car. I wonder if it will go faster......even though it is not red.

I am leaving you all here with the thought it is not what you have in material good but what you have got in your family protect them.

Keep smiling and healthy

l

Judy

I'mmmmmmmm soooooooooo sorrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyy

Yes IU really mean that, I am so sorry.
Since I last blogged a lot has happened.

1. The New shop Arty Pants, opened in Cranbourne on the 28th July 2007 Shops3/4/5 Bella Centre, 33-39 High St Cranbourne Vic Next to the NAB or for those who frequent the pubs, diagonal to Kellys pub in Cranbourne.
2. My Son Mark has had a new change in his life, and I am so proud of him. He is a New Man.
3. Mark also broke his ankle (but then we were told it wasn't broken, then told it was and then told no it wasn't who do you believe. Then after a Cat scan no breaks but he has badly damaged all the tendons and ligament in the ankle, so they are keeping it in plaster until the 6 week time is up and then see shat they are going to do.
4. We closed the shop in Hampton Park on the 20th July, ( On the 22nd it would have been 12 months since we opened a retail store.
5. So many wonderful people came out of the woodwork and helped us pack up and un pack the shop. Thank you everyone you know who you are.
6. I have had to go a see a cardiologist. (maybe open heart surgery I was told ,I think I was told this just to scare the absolute s**t out of me) Well it worked. I have been told now that they are trying fluid tablets to see if they can get rid of excess fluid to make my heart beat stronger and not harder. It seems that the muscle around the heart has thickened and was not allowing the heart to relax, which in turn made the muscle become rigid which in turn made it worse. so I have been told. Well not one any more but two fluid tablets in the morning definatly make me we we we weeeeeee all the way where ever I go. And then they decided to change my blood pressure medication. I go back a see him again in 3 weeks. I wonder what else they will come up with. Well at least I am losing weight ( must have been holding a lot of fluid because I have droped quite a lot.
7. On top of all this, I get the most horrible cold.....Cassie had this the weekend the shop opened, whe wasn't the well little chickadee at all, all she did was sleep. Then when Cassie was on Antibiotics and was getting better, Chelsie got sick, all she has wanted is her Mum then surprise surprise Last Wednesday guess who started to get sick You guessed it....Me! By Saturday I had lost my voice and then Sunday all I wanted to do was sleep, then I though I was starting to get better but it went to my chest and again I feel terrible. I understand how Cassie and Chelsie felt. Well today is Tuesday and I am still not any better. I have Thursday as a day off so if I am still sick,maybe I had better head for the Drs.
8. Melinda a Glenn have been sick with both of them having time off work
9. Now Mark is sick.

Who started all this sickness.

Apart from all this we are all fine and doing great.

Again I am sorry for not blogging earlier but..........

Keep smiling and healthy

L

Judy

bad bad blogger

Yes I know, I haven't posted for such a long time. Well I do have an excuse. Arty Pants is moving to bigger and better premises and I have been really busy trying to sort everything out.
I think everyone will be surprised to find out this news, but we feel that it is for the better. Jodie and I are quite excited, but aprehensive due to all the hard work that is ahead of us.
I have been blogg jumping but I admit that I haven't had the time to post on my own blogg. Also I have been watching all the goings on on the Arty Pants forum.
The shop has been rather hectic over the past few weeks and we are holding massive specials all the time. Then one of our suppliers and myself have been organising Childrens classes for the upcoming school holidays, what a lot of fun.
On the home front, all seems to have settled down since the birth of Chelsie and the wedding of the year. Melinda is in the midst of scrapbooking her photos, and she is doing just a great job. Chelsie is now three months old, doesn't time fly. She is gooing and gahing and on the verge of laughing. Everytime you see her she is smiling. She gives just the greatest biggest smile ever.
Cassie is just the wonderful big sister,sometimes she is toooo kind.
Taylor has started at a new school and from what I can gather she just loves it. She seems to be the really big kid on the block now. She idolises Cassie and is just so grat with Chelsie.
Jodie is coping well with the two kids and Mark seems to have settled in well without Danni. Melinda is just loving her married life and is still teaching.
Bill, well what can I say, Bill is just Bill and so supportive as usual.
Mum is so settled into the dementia section of the nursing home and is just so calm, it is amazing.
My only down side at the moment is that I am lonely......... Lonely you say, yes I am lonely. I used to speak with my brother Jim on a regular intervals, but i am finding that I am really missing him. I know that he is happy, but I just do wish that he was as least able to talk on the phone. and as for my mum, I used to speak with her daily but she also can't hold a understandable conversation, so as you can see why I am lonely, not for the love and conversation of my family but for what I can't have. But life must go on and I will cope. I have some wonderful friends and a suppoortive family.
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

Arty Pants forum is up and running.

Arty Pants forum is now live! www.artypants.com.au/phpBB2. Take a look and start chatting. The colours are still not correct and if you have any suggestions please let us know, We are open to all suggestions.
Jodie has worked long and hard on organising this forum so I think she has done a wonderful job. There was a lot of stress sweat and tears gone into the organising as well as looking after a 9 week old baby and a 3 year old and owning a shop and running a house, so here's 3 cheers to jodie. Wel done!!!
This is just a very short blogg so I will blogg again soon.
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

Mothers Day!

I wish all mothers out there a wonderful and peaceful Mothers Day.

Enjoy and celebrate that you have brought into this world new life.

Life is too short for regrets, tell them daily that you love them:

1. love them for who they are,
2. acknowledge them for who they are
3. respect them for who they are,
4. enjoy them for who they are.
5. they are Your children,
6. they are individuals
7. BUT they have their own mind.

Enjoy your day.

Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

RIP William Houghton (Bill)

I have just spent 1 hour blogging and I lost it. I think it might have been for the best, because it was very depressing and negative and I don't think any of you would want to read through such blab. No more tears or negativity.
My Uncle Bill (Bill Houghton) passed away last night and I have been sitting here typing how bad cancer is and how it sucks. I have had tears rolling down my face and onto the keyboard, so maybe thats what happened, I fused it .
Anyhow CANCER SUCKS. (as Dawn Stan would say).
My Uncle Bill was the best uncle and a wonderful man.
my condolences to my Aunty Marion, Billy and Judy, Bob and Sheila and Carol and all their families. He is like an eagle soaring high above all and watching over everyone who cared.
I think that is enough to say. No more hours of feeling sorry.
Be happy Uncle Bill, and say Hi to Dad, Val and Jim for me.
Awareness is the cure for cancer everyone so please be aware.
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy
xxxx

My tag of interesting information.

I have been tagged by Janet.

Each player starts with 7 random facts/habits about themselves. People who are tagged need to write on their own blog about their seven things, as well as these rules. At the end of your blog, you need to choose 7 people to get tagged and list their names. Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them that they have been tagged and to read your blog!

1. I do not like anyperson touching my feet. I can't even stand Bill's feet touching mine while we are in bed. I have told Bill that he will only get to touch my feet when I'm dead.
2. I have really curly hair and I hate it. When I was younger I used to have long hair and I would have a shower before bed every night and wash my hair and tie it back to tight so that it would dry like that. Didn't fix the curles but I did only have wavy hair during the day.
3. I am the youngest of my family. I have two sisters and 1 brother and they are all alot older than me. Valerie was 16 years older, Marjie was 14 year older and Jim 11 years older. My mother was 44 years old and my father was 48 years old when they had me. I always told my parents that I was an after thought.
4. I look more like my Aunty Joan (including our ways and mannerisms) than I have ever looked like my Mum. Maybe their is something my family never told me.
5. I was 20 when I got married and was 22 nearly 23 when I had Jodie.
6. During my second Pregnancy, I was six weeks pregnant when I had a curette, and the baby survied. (Mark) I didn't know I was pregnant until I was 5 months. and then it was a shock, as I was told after the results of the curette that I would never be able to have any more children. I went on and proved them all wrong. with two extra children.
7. On every wedding cake I have made I have always put in a special little something on the decorations signifying the individuals of the couple. eg. Melinda and Glenn got tiny little blackboards signifying they are both teachers. Jodie and Jeff got a paint brush and a knife signifying their love of art. I have even put in a little carrot signifying the love of carrot cake. quirky I know but that me.

Now I tag.....umm let me think. Chrissy, Connie, Mel Diener, Dawn Stan, Steph, Bec, and anyone else who has not been tagged. I can't think of anyone else who has not been tagged.

Thanks Janet for tagging me. It is amazing the things that you think of. Once I got going I had trouble stopping.

Wednesday we held an all day crop. It was a really great day and everyone said that they enjoyed themselves. It was a full house and we were asked when we were having another.

Friday night again we cropped and had a full house again. and next week is booked out as well. The crops are certainly taking off.

I worked again today, I am really tired on a Saturday after the Friday night crop, as I open the shop on the Saturday morning. I had a very productive day today and got all our paperwork ready to do the accounts ready for the accountant next week.

Tomorrow Bill, Mark and I are taking Taylor to the aquarium. I am sure we will all have fun. Taylor is so excited, as she has been waiting to go there for a long time. Yes i'm taking my camera of course.

Bill, Melinda and Taylor went to the nursing home today to see my Mum and Bills dad today. Mum asked Bill if he went on the honeymoon with Melinda. I know you have to laugh at the comments you get from them both, otherwise you would end up crying all the time. They both were happy they said and comfortable.

Well I am going to get some rest and its off to bed for me.

Keep smiling and healthy.

l

Judy

Badddddddd Blogger!!!!!!!!

Yes that's me. I am sooooo sorry, I have been recuperating after such a busy time.

In a matter of 2 months, I have had my brother pass away, the birth of another Grandaughter and the wedding of my youngest daughter Melinda. They say that the only time you usually see all the family and that isat a wedding and funeral. This is just so true. I have seen more of my family (distant family) in the past two months than I have seen of them in the past two years. How sad is that. It doesn't help that we are spread over three states.
I am still working long hours but I must say it is very rewarding. No not on the money side of things, but to be able to work in a place that is also your hobby, it is just, just just............great.

My life at the moment is, work Monday thru to Thursday 9.30a.m.. - 5.p.m. Friday 9.30am to by the time the crop is over leave the shop at the minimum of 1.am saturday Morning. Then work in the shop Saturday 10am - 5p.m. and then Sunday 11am - 3 p.m. As of Tomorrow I will be having Sundays off and Jodie is going to work the 4 hours as Jeff can come in with her and help out.(she can't feed while serving, unless she wants to flash her boobs). Jodie has been coming in on a regular basis but it is very hard with a 6 week old baby and a 3 year old, just to get organised. But all the amount she comes in helps me. Thankyou Jodie for all you do...

Bill has been fantastic... I could no ask for a better husband. The support he gives is remarkable.(i don't know what I did to score such a catch, but whatever it was I must have done a great job of it.) Thankyou darling for standing by me in thick and thin. I love you.

I have rambled on enough,
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

The finish to a wonderful day.

After lots and lots of photos, it was on to the reception. With fun and dancing.
We had a DJ and he was setting up during the time between the ceremony and the reception. Majority of the guests went up to the RSL to enjoy the hours space, a lot just stayed at the reception centre. I must say that the AMBERLEE Receptions is definately the place to have a function. Nick and his staff were just so accomodating. We had a couple of elderley people. My Mum and Bills Dad< They wouldn't have made it if we went to the RSL. So they supplied us all with Tea and Coffee and biscuits. This was definately not part of the costs, but just as an added extra. Then I was asked if they could take out some hot nibble to guests who where trickling back. I said we hadn't paid for the hot nibbles, only pre dinner drin ks. Nick told me he hated wastage and he had quite a lot left over from the night befores wedding and would I mind. Of course I said I have no troubles. They served them and I think everyone had had their fill.

Then came the time for everyone to take their seats. Would you believe 8 people didn't even show up. We paid $65.00 / head for everyone and 8 didn't even show up. How rude. Especially when three of those were people who had rund up to ask if they could bring someone, and then thay didn't show. Any how the night was a big success.

The soup: choice of Pumpkin or Hearty beef and vegetable.
The Main: choice of Roast leg of Lamb or Oven roasted chicken.

There was so much food on each plate, that I don't think anyone could have been hungry.
On each table was: Red and white wine, beer, and soft drink and water. They just kept on refilling and replacing all the bottles as one was finished they would bring in another. Great service.
Then it was time for the formalaties. Boy I was so tired, I am glad that it is up to the Father of the Bride.
Bill got up and spoke quite fluently (after a small hic cup when he forgot what he was saying). He thanked everyone who had to be thanked, welcomed Glenn into out family and said how proud he was of his Little girl.
Then Arthur spoke (Glenn's Dad) he also did a remarkable job.
Then as Glenn would say, it was up to the MAN. Glenn told how he loved Melinda and Her smile and that he was glad she had said yes to him. He thanked everyone, especially William and Judith (yes that it was he said he was going to call Bill and I on the night and He did, He knows how much we hate those names, but we just get on a laugh and always will and he will continue to call us them) and then he spoke of his father who I think got a biger and bigger chest with what Glenn said about his dad was just tear jerking. Then he thanked the wonderful bridesmaids and flower girls and of course his groomsmen. They all looked stunning at that long table. This littlies behave really well.
Stuart then replied and then it was time for the telegrams, they themselves I think make a wedding.
Tony (Groomsman, at Bill and My wedding, 33 years ago,) Proposed a toast to the Parents of the Bride and groom.Thanks Tony you did a great job. He filled in for Jim. (my brother who passed away 6 weeks ago) Jim was always the person who got up and spoke at all our family occassions, He was greatly missed on the night.
After that it was time to cut the cake and the bridal walz. What alovely couple.
After lots and lots of dancing.
THE DESSERTS.
They cought out a buffet of desserts. We had to pick out six - eight desserts for the night. The way the crowd decended I think it was well worth it and well received. I must say, not much left.
Then more dancing, and then it was the Garter and Bouquet throw. Melinda wore my garted I wore at my wedding but we bought a new one for her to wear also and that was the one that was thrown. It bounced of quite a few hands and then finally landed in Colin Houghton's hand,(One of my 2nd cousins) He proudly wore it on his arm for the remainder of the night. Then the bouquet throw. We were quite surprised at how far Melinda threw it. (Melinda has no coordination skills at all). Cindy Herdman jumped, (would have made any footballer proud) and she got the bouquet. Her Mum and Dad I think were saying oh nooooooooo!.
Then it was time for Melinda and Glenn to leave. We formed the circle while all the goodbyes and thankyous were said and they it was through a long tunnel they went out the front door. They were going in the photgraphers car (so noone could get theirs) as they were leaving I said my usual phrase as any of my kids go anywhere (Be good). Melinda's reply, I don't have to anymore I'M MARRIED! I think that said it all. They were going to the Frankston Beach for some night photos by the photographer. If anyone ever needs a photographer, I would have not hesitation in referring JAMES Babone. He was fantastic, well worth his money and went way beyond his duty.
Melinda and Glenn went and stayed at their own home in Cranbourne that night and left early Monday morning for Surfers Paradise.
After everyone left it was time for packing up. The presents(lots of them) the left over cake and then it was taking Mum back to the nursing home and then HOME.
Bill and I were completely and utterly STUFFED. I think it was just the fact that we had had such a busy time before the wedding with a funeral, with preparations, the birth of a new granddaughter and marrying off our daughter along with still working and running our own businesses. We couldn't just take time off and still get paid.

Melinda and Gleen returned home yesterday from QLD and said they had a fantastic time and again thanked Bill and I for all the work and effort into making their wedding day just superb.
And what Bill and I get out of all this,
We see our Daughter smiling and just so happy and in return we are just so happy that all is ok.
Life goes on! The circle of life! I seem to have this in a lot of my bloggs lately.
Bill and I always happy and don't interfere in our kids lives unless there is a need. We always say: IF OUR KIDS ARE HAPPY WE ARE HAPPY, BUT IF THEY AREN'T THEN DON'T GET ON THE WRONG SIDE OF US.
Life: A very long time. You are born and supported by your parents fully until you can get your own things. Then once you are old enough to support yourself, then you are on your own. If you make a wrong decision, you have made your bed then you must lie in it. Get yourself out of trouble, but at all times, we are there to support you mentally and help you mentally. You make your own decisions, whether good or bad, but they are your decisions and can't blame anyone else for them. It you fall we are there for you to help you climb up that ladder again. We will be there to share your good and bad times and know that our love has no boundries. We will love you forever, we may not like what you are doing or have done, but will ALWAYS stand beside you.
Keep smiling and healthy.
l
Judy

Sorry TOOOOOOOO tired!!!!!

I will blogg again tomorrow night, I am just so tired and I need more sleep. I have more photos of the wedding reception and will share I promise.
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

continuation of the Fairy Tale

We were all seated when the Music commenced.

Out first were the Flower girls, Cassie (3) and Taylor (8). They were just beautiful. White dresses with a blue sash and carrying a basket of red roses. just superb. The two of them were just so confident and so different to the rehearsal. They walked slowly and smiled at all you took their photos. They took their place at the Gazebo. Next was Shona, Melinda met shona during her nursing course and have been friends ever since. Traveling to NZ together and nightclubbing. Shona has a beautiful smile, and her comment was that the day was just like a dream. Then came Adele, Melinda and Adele met at school and have been friend since Grade 5. Instead of Schoolies week at the end of year 12 they both traveled to China for 22 days. Adele was the one with the rose petals and pancakes in the morning. Then the maid of honour. Kristy. Kristy and her family lived next door to us for over 13 years and Melinda has been friends with Kristy since Kristy was 4 and Melinda was 6.Such a Beautiful Friendship, Like diamonds. Kristy stated that she thought she was more nervous than Melinda. She has only ever been to 2 weddings and this was her 2nd and best.

Then... after a short pause.

Melinda and her father Bill arrived. arms gently entwined, what a magical sight, the smile on both was wonderful to see. Bill stood proud and tall of his beautiful daughter. Walking up to the gazebo and handing his daughter to her husband to be.

Now Time for some photos

This was when Melinda saw the horse and cart for the first time and Bill Melinda, Cassie and Taylor travelling in the carriage.

Then there is the proud father of the bride, Bill and his daughter Melinda. Can't you all see how proud he was? Then it was time for the Vows. It was such a lovely but simple ceremony and one filled with plenty of love. They with plenty of cheers, they were pronounced Husband and Wife. Mr and Mrs Glenn and Melinda Hamilton. They made a lovely couple and quite obviously deeply in love. Then it was time for the fun photos and fun.

Melinda's Maternal Grandmother (Nana) and her Paternal Grandfather (Grandpa)..They were quite honoured to be part of their grandchildrens wedding. Although I am not sure if either really new what was happening.

Then that right me in a hat and all dolled up with Glenn, Melinda and Bill.

Melinda and Glenn enjoying their time with the horse and cart.

And then finally tonight I will leave you with OUR FAMILY.

In the front are Taylor and Cassie, Left to right

Jeff, Jodie, Chelsie, Judy, Glenn, Melinda, Mark and Bill.

The Davis Family as we are: Full of fun and laughter, Love and happiness and we wish everyone out there a wonderful night, and may they share their love with their own families, as we share ours.

I will post again tomorrow with more of the fun of the night with the reception details and MORE photos.

Keep smiling everyone and keep healthy.

Love and thanks,

Judy

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!

What an absolutly wonderful and magnificent day.
The weather was tremendous, no rain in sight, the sun was shining, the birds were even singing and horses were very well behaved.
The day started at 6.30am. Adel, one of Melinda's Bridesmaids stayed overnight on Saturday, got up and cooked Melinda Pancakes for breakfast and threw fresh rose petals over her for good luck, it is apparently good luck, and boy was the bride to be pampered.
7.30 off to the hairdressers for Adele and myself
8.15 Melinda Shona and Kristy arrived at the hairdressers, then it was Jodies turn then my mums (Marj) and then the very excited flowergirls.
The makeup run started at 10.30, as we were finished at the hairdressers, we headed home to the have the makeup applied. It all ran so very smoothly.
The flowers arrived at 9am and then it was Bills turn to take them off to Glenns house.
I picked my Mum up at the Nursing home at 9.30am and was back home at 10.15
Mark decided at 11am that he needed a haircut, so I took him down to Fountain Gate and while I was there I just happened to get a couple of bottles of Champagne. Before I left I decided to put on some homemade sausage rolls for the girls to nibble on. (I forgot them), Thankfully
Kristy and Adele decided to go near the oven for some reason, and found that the oven was warm. Saved by the bell.
When I got back from Foutain Gate we cracked the Champagne. 2 bottles do not go very far when you have 9 women,three men getting ready for a wedding. But it was just enough to wet the whistle.
At 2p.m. Taylor's shoes broke (Flower girl) so Melinda (Veil and all) along with her 3 Bridesmaids headed off to Fountain Gate to get some new shoes.
While they were gone Helped Mum get dressed.
Home again home again Jigety jig came the Bride and Bridesmaids, then the rush started.
The photographer arrived at 2pm and set up, and started taking photo's of everyone before they got ready. They got some beautiful shots of My mum with her 24 Great granddaughter (Chelsie).
The bridesmaid were in one room, I was in another with Melinda, Bill was in the ensuite having a shower. She LOKKED Awesome!!!!!!!!!. It just a speachless moment when you see you daughter first in her wedding dress and veil knowing that she soom will be a married woman. That initial sight is breathtaking.
PHOTOS PHOTOS and MORE PHOTOS, those of you that are married would understand that statement. You get sick of smiling.
Then it was time to get the flowergirls dressed. They were sooooooooooo patient. and they toooooooo looked georgeous. They got their necklace and bracelet on and they were ready. For a Three year old and an eight year old they were just so well behaved.
Then time for mum to get dressed.
Stocking, skirt camisole, jacket and then beieve it or not a hat. Yes I wore a hat. I felt just so special.
Then I looked over at Bill, standing in the background, in his stunning black suit, with his Silver vest and tie. I now know why I married him 33 years ago.. Maybe in the background but always there. Thankyou darling.
I walked out to see my 3 kids, Jodie looking soo well and beautiful in her tuorqoise tope and straight hair, my daughter Melinda in all her finery and looking stunning in white, and then my son Mark, what a stunner. Black Suite and vest,and turqoise tie. He is not always around but to see him standing there watching in awe as everything unfold around him was tremendous. Bill and I are just so lucky to have 3 absolutely together kids. They wouldn't miss anything that the other is doing. Thankyou my darlings you all are a credit to your Mum and Dad. We love you. Thankyou.
Then after more and more photos, it was time. The cars were waiting out the front, one for the Bride and her Father and the two flowergirls, and one for the three bridemaids and mother of the bride, Jodie Jeff, Chelsie, Mark and Mum (Marj)were off in Jodies car.
One minor stop, Cranbourne Hall. and there waiting was a beautiful white carriage, with two beautiful dressed white horses, and gentleman dressed in red top, just to sett off the occasion.
Out of the big car and into the Carriage went Bill, Melinda and the two flowergirls. I don't know who was so excited. The adults or the flowergirls, Taylor kept on saying I'm going in the carriage.
Off again. What a great site. Melinda and Bill even told us they had Japanese tourists stop and take photos, it just looked magical.
I was first to arrive at the reception centre, I jumped out of the car and made my entrance, The group and atmosphere was estatic, there were kids and parents from the schools at which Melinda and Glenn teach.
Mark and Jeff were handing out order of service sheets, the Celebrant welcomed me and then it was off to the Gazebo where I went and greeted my new son soon to be. He and his groomsmen were up there looking very dapper indeed. The groomsmen in their black suits and blue ties to match the bridemaids and the grrom........well what can I say....There in his black suit and gold tie, very stunning. I think the longer he waited the more nervous he got.
The the shout went up, There they are in a horse and carriage....... It was just all so fairytale like, I feel like I am writing a book.
I am going to close this blogg this time for now and will return soon with the remainder of the farytale.............and photos.

Until then
Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judy

Less than 24 hours

The cake is fianally finished.I finished it this morning and it is now at the reception centre.

Well tomorrow at 4p.m. Melinda will be marrying Glenn. What a wonderful couple they will make.

Everything is finally ready, all we have to do now is to get the hair done, makeup makeuped, drink a few leisurely champagnes and get ready for the big day.

We looked at the flowers today. Van Wyk Flowers are the best. I certainly can recommend them. Melinda got to do a final view of them today and even pick what color ribbon, and if anything needed changing they would have done it today. What service. They will even deliver for a small charge of $10.00. Couldn't pick them up for that price. and then as we were leaving them they handed me a bouguet of roses for the house. FANTASTIC service.

Time for Bill and I to start relaxing.

The weather is supposed to be good.

I will post again with photos of the day on Monday, so stay tuned.

Until next time.

Keep smiling and healthy

l

Judy

Thursday already!!!!!!!

How time flies, it seems just like yesterday that we held Melinda and Glenn's Engagement party and here we are only three more sleeps until the BIG WEDDING.
The plans are all going great.
I have to thank quite a few people:

• Jodie, thankyou very much for all your hard work you have put into the invitation, Rsvp cards and finally yesterday the place cards, They are a credit to you and it just shows that the money put into your education definately was not wasted. You certainly have excelled this time. You have a two week old baby along with a three year old and you have still managed. Thankyou, thankyou, thankyou.
• To Vanassa, thanks for arranging the decorations for the Gazebo, it is greatly appreciated.
• To Jenny and Marni, thankyou from the bottom of my heart for all the work you do in the shop, without you two I would still be stressing as to when I would be able to finish the last minute shopping for the wedding.
• I have been offered many hand for the preparation for the wedding to all of you that have offered Thankyou.
• Yesterday, I was to go and ppurchase a small heart cookie cutter for one of the decorations for the cake, I happened to be talking to a lady and gentleman who came into out shop for the first time YESTERDAY. I hadn't met either of them before, complete strangers. The conversation got onto Cake decorating and the heart cookie cutter, she said she thought she had one in her stash and that she would check, Approx 2 hours later the gentleman came back into the shop with a cookie cutter in his hand. Hows that for firendship. I have it on loan until today. Thankyou Sharon very much. It was really appreciated.
• To the many people who come into the shop with wishes, thankyou. Your kindness is very much appreciated.
• And finally to my darling husband, Bill, thankyou for your support through the past few months. Without all the love, support and encouragment you have supplied me with I would be in a little pile on the floor.

Last night I finnished the bonbonieres, the place cards, the table settings, have everything ready to put into the car this morning to take to the Reception Rooms. I did some more decorations for the Wedding cake, (still not finished but will be by Friday night ready to take to the Recption rooms Saturday Morning).I then put a treatment into my hair, gave myself a small pedicure, I must say I finally got some time for ME.

I think after Sunday, I will be offically exhausted.

Thankyou all again for your support.

Keep smiling and healthy

l

Judy

6 more sleeps

Well it is down to single digits until the wedding. It is becoming the wedding of the year the way things are going.
We had a rehearsal for the big day yesterday Sunday, It all went extremely well. Having a three year old as one of the flower girls is going to be mighty cute. We asked Cassie to stand near Taylor and hold her hand and she put her hands on her hips, stamped her foot and said an outright NO! i DON'T WANT TO. Of course we all laughed. I wonder what she will be up to on Sunday. We then told the young girls to pretend that they are holding their baskets with flowers. Taylor held hers at the right level, Cassie held hers up around her head. Then is was practising for the walk up the aisle. Well Taylor walked rather fast whilst holding on to Cassie's hand and Cassie looked like whe was flying. Ater all the fun side everything went off really well. The Boys weren't quite up to their old self, They had Glenn's Bucks night on Saturday night and I think they were all a little under the weather.
Talking of Weather. I have heard that the day is supposed to be around 22 and sunny. So should be a good day.
After the reahearsal, Bill and I and Melinda and Glenn went in to the reception hall and did the final preparations and paid all the moeny. This went off really smoothly as Well. This is the same reception house that Jodie and Jeff had their reception in, but I must say that the NEW OWNERS are a lot more organised. Even down to arranging to order a Taxi for the Newly weds at the end of the night and the time. We were extremely impressed.
Melinda rang the photographer and he will be at our home at 2.20p.m. on Sunday as we will be leaving at 3.20p.m
The Bridesmaids are staying over on Saturday night and I think they are all going out for Dinner on Sat night, They asked Bill and I but I declinded as I think Bill will take me out on Friday night as Friday is our Wedding anniversary. We will have been married for 33 years. You don't get that long for murder, do you? Bill can never remember whether our anniversary is 30th or 31st March . It is quite funny actually. I wonder if he will ever remember?
I had better go and do some work
Keep smiling and healthy
l
Judy

Countdown until wedding

With only 1and half weeks to go, I have been rather busy trying to sort out the final arrangements.

• Met with Glenn's parents on Sunday Night. Bill cooked a lovely meal and then it was down to business. Numbers stand at 113 plus 2 children (the flowergirls) It has been decided that each family pay for their own guests and we split the bridal party and the kids guests 3 ways. Then it was the cost for the celebrant, cake, cars, flowers etc etc. These costs also are being split 3 ways. Bill and I are up approx $1000.00 with this arrangement. We are not complaining.
• Monday night Melinda Glenn and I went to see the reception rooms to arrange menu(can't let you know the menu yet, will tell after the wedding,I will say it is YUMMY, especially the sweets) and colours for napkins, and all the final arrangements for the reception and paying the money. All went very smoothly. I must say that the new owners are very easy to speak with and we have had not hassels.
• Tuesday, I opened the shop, then left Jenny and Marni to manage it. (Jodie came in again, I don't think she trusts me. Ha Ha). I went to Frankston, collected my outfit, bought a hat, bought shoes for mum to wear, organised the items I need to complete the cake, bought stockings, ribbon for bonbonieres, and after approx $600.00 later and a cup of tea and some lunch, I left Frankston and returned to the shop.
• On my return today, the boxes for the bonbonieres were delivered to the shop, so that another thing I can get on to.
• I went home to a wonderfully clean house. Debbie Hemple came in today and did a marvelous restoration to my house. Thanks Debbie, it was great to go home and not have to do anything.
• I am now just relaxing, checking out blogg world and then I think it might me time for bed. ready to start another busy day.

Jodie dropped Chelsie off to Moniques today and then came into the shop with Chelsie, of course I had Nannie cuddles. It is wonderful to have a newborn around again. They smell just so scrumptious. She did try to get some food from my boobs but I told her in no uncertain terms that they are a dry agrument.

I have decided that the time has come, I must get my beauty sleep.

Keep smiling and healthy

l

Judy

Photo At Last

Blogger is being nice, today. I chose this photo as I feel that it is such a beautiful photo of Chelsie. I did a layout last night and I think it turned out really well.

Aren't I just so good at bragging. I don't care if you don't like me bragging , you will just have to put up with it. I am a proud Nanie.

Jodie and Chelsie are going home from hospital tomorrow (Sunday). Cassie is just so excited that she is taking Chels home. (She has already shortened her name.)

Keep smiling and healthy.

L

Judy

I have photos

Unfortunately, blogger won't let me load them at the moment. Will try again tmorrow. If any of you are near the shop drop by.
I have even scrapbooked a beautiful page tonight.
Can't tell I am a very happy grandmother. Do you think I am biased?????????
Until next time,
Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judy

The miracle of life.

Thank You Jodie and Jeff for another wonderful Grand daughter. She is just so perfect in every way. I was sitting there tonight cuddling her and looking at the beautiful lips, nose and eyes, then you look at the long fingers, and then her toes, just all so perfect. Another creation made by you two.
I looked at Cassie, who is just an adorable 3 year old. Her tenderness with her baby sister and the way she cares when she cries. Then the way she was carefully watching you feed her, then the way she reacted when she saw her umbilical cord, the ways she has grown herself in past 24 hours from the baby in the family to the big girl.
Then I look at my wonderful daughter who just 24 hours created the miracle of life, and bought Chelsie into this world. A daughter who 30 years ago was not much smaller than this new born baby, with again the beautiful lips, nose and eyes, then the fingers and toes again all just so perfect.
Life is one big Circle.
The miracle of life.
Keep smiling and healthy.
L
Judy

Welcome to a New Granddaughter.

CHELSIE OLIVIA ARMITAGE,made her way into the world at 7.33p.m. on Tuesday 13th March 2007. She weighed in at 3kg 3gr. Jodie, Jeff and Cassie are on cloud 9. and by the way so is Nannie. Chelsie had a few problems with breathing last night and was in a humidicrib until 1am this morning. She is now in the normal crib with her Mum, and doing fine.
Jodie did really well with her labour and nicely said after, that maybe she will be able to make the Crop for Kids on Good Friday. What a scrapbooker.
I am going and will give more news as it comes to light.
Mayber next blogg I can just happen to find some photos.

Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judy

News!!!!!!

I have some very important news!
Can't tell you yet,
Hopefully tomorrow. I promise as soon as I can tell you I will.
All I can say is that I am on tender hooks, and have been since 8.30am today.
blogg tomorrow.
Got you all thinking now haven't I.
Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judy

What a busy day.
I had the day off today. It was so good just relaxing. We not really relaxing but doing things for the wedding.
I collected the mail, ticked off more replies, then I went shopping. Yes, I was supposed to have my hair cut and coloured, but last night I found I had nits.......yes that right, nits, so I bought some nit stuff . Then it was off to bras and things... I decided that I really should have a good fitting bra, my old one was so uncomfortable. The one I got cost me $50.00 but I feel like I am not wearing anything at all. Great. Then it was off to spotlight to do some snooping. Yess I said snooping. I looked right through all their products and found that ours are quite comparable to theirs in price and a lot beeter in quality. I liked their shop fitting better that ours and I got some wonderful ideas with regard to displays.Then I was off to Vanassa's. Had some indepth talks with regrds the Beanie Kids. If the company who carries then, doesn't get off their you know whats and sort out our big problem we will not be carrying them anymore. Can't elaborate anymore yet but mayble one day.I then went home and put that stuff though my hair. Gee it is strong smelly stuff, and I am sure it can't be any good for your hair but anything to get rid of those horrible things. I left in in for an hour, they say only for 20 minutes but I wanted to be sure. I need my hair done next week. I think I might have suffocated them with the smell.
Then it was off to the wholesalers for the wedding invitations. They are closing down and I needed to pick up some product.
Then it was home for dinner and then I have just done the minutes for the H/P Network group for which I am secretary
I have had many phone calls today business, wedding and pleasure. I was ready to throw the phone. Now I am writing on my blogg and then it will be off to bed for me.
Such a busy day, but I haven't really accomplished much at all.
Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judy

Life goes on.....4 weeks to go

Hi everyone,
four weeks until the birth of another grandaughter and the wedding of the Davis family for 2007.
We are running quite a tight ship at the moment.
Jodie is just so tired, but because of the darling website host, refusing to give us a password she cannot get the internet sorted out for Arty Pants and change it over, she is refusing to have any time off as she says she hasn't the time. Come on Col, do the right thing and hand over the correct password. afterall it should have been under Jodie's e-mail address from the start. Don't you just hate the idiots who think they own everything.
Jodie has only 4 weeks to go until her due date, but I think this baby will come ealy. Lets hope so, so she can attend the wedding along with having a beautiful little darling child.
While we were in Adelaide last Wednesday, Melinda bought her veil, fancy having to travel all the way to Adelaide. It is nicer than any we had seen in Melbourne, but again a lot heftier price. The Hair trial went smoothly on Friday night and her hair will look lovely.
The replies for the wedding are now coming in quite steadily, and so far we haven't received any inabilities. The roses are the next thing for the wedding cake........Lovely Red ones. Won't they look absolutely stunning.
The flower girls have a fitting on Thursday night for their dresses, and Melinda's dress should be finnished with the alterations. We are having a meeting at the reception room today at 4p.m. Here we will measure up the Gazebo and chapel for the decorations. also the planning for the rehearsal. Excitement plus in the Davis household at the present.
On the work front, the shop is going great and the amount of wonderful people you meet and those that turn up at crops makes going to work wonderful.
I had better go as I need to open the shop.
Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judyxxxxxx

Celebration of a life well lived!!!!!!!!

Just returned from Adelaide, where I attended the funeral of my darling brother Jim. The funeral was fit for a king and in my eyes he was the king of brothers.

The church was full to the brim with people from all walks of life. Family and friends from all over Australia. Friends from his Personal and Business dealings spoke of Jim with very high regard, but one thing they all had in common was that he always handled himself with the highest of dignity and his relationship with all was the same. His philosophy in life was that the higher a bamboo grows the lower they must bend, and he would never ask someone to do something that he himself could not do, and if he asked someone to do something better he always had to be able to do it better. But the fun side of Jim Parkinson was one of Red wine and music. And this was another side of Jim that was mentioned with high regard.

Jim was Manager for Ansett in South Australia . He was transferred to Adelaide in 1989 and was highly regarded by many in the aviation industry. He had dealing with the passengers to politicians and the media and knew how to handle the situations that were dealt him at all times. He left Ansett in 1995 and became a consultant...He then had dealings with the SA Tourisism commission and the Racing Fraternity.

The pictures above were from the front and rear cover of the order of service. It was like a full blown production but definately one suited to Jim.

His wife stood in front of the packed congregation and spoke of her love for my brother and how eventhough their marriage was only 12 years long it was filled with love and music . She stated how blessed she was and that it was a privelidge to say she was married to Jim. She spoke of his illness and how hard the last two years were, but how she was honoured to have nursed him, especially in the last 8 weeks of his life.

Jim's ex wife Val, was in attendance and I am sure it must have been hard for her, but she also was there out of her love and the 27 years of marriage that she had with Jim. She was so proud also to have spent 27 years with Jim. Although their marriage didn't work out it still is part of the lives of both of them and that time held many memories that were shared also.

Jim and Val had two daughters, Donna and Joanne. They both were there and I believe were so very proud of their father. They both mentioned the jigsaw sandwiches that Jim created when they were younger. (He cut out messages in their sandwiches like a jigwaw puzzle, this today is continued with their children). Jim, Val and the girls travelled the world and they were all reminiscing of their times away. and the fun they all enjoyed.

Donna had three children Max, Tom and Bethany and Joanne has two children Bella and Will.

Janet has two children from her previous marriage (Janet's 1st husband and two of their 4 children were killed in a tragic aeroplane accident in Broken Hill. The accident happened on the eighth birthday of their youngest daughter Sophie) Marie and Jean-Paul were also in attendance, they told of their love for Jim and that although he never tried to take the place of their father, he came in very close with his wisdom and love and guidance. Marie has a son Sebastion and is expecting another in July and Jean Paul has two daughter Harper and Millar and a son Cuba.

Jim was known as Grandpa Jim to all his grandchildren of which there were 9. He loved each and every one of them and gained much loved and delight in return from them each.

After the funeral we returned to the family home and were treated to such a spread of food and of course wine and champagne.(It wouldn't be a Parkinson get to gether without the wine and champagne). Jim was definately there in spirit. The love that was shared along with the tears and loving reminiscing of a wonderful man proved that he was there with us. I can just imagine him drinking red wine with my dad (dad drinking scotch) and saying gee was I that good a person.

I was greeted by many in attendance as "definately Jim Parkinson's sister" They said I have his eyes, his cheeks and most of all his smile. I feel quite priveledged to be told this.

Sorry this is such a long blogg, but I thought you all would be interested to hear about the Celebration of Jim's Life.

Jim's death will not be in vain if everyone out there remembers that CANCER can strike without any notice, so please each and every one of you, please be aware. Awareness is the answer to CANCER. Remember AWARENESS.

Finally, I would like to THANK everyone who has sent e-mails, cards, messages on my blogg, or made a point of personally spoken to me or sent messages via Jodie, Melinda and Mark and of Course Bill.

The love, fun and wisdom of Jim Parkinson will remain in this world, and I am proud to have had Jim Parkinson as my brother, and the world is a better place to have had Jim Parkinson in it.

Thanks for listening

but most of all

Keep smiling and Healthy.

Love to all and thankyou.

Judy. xxxxxxxxxx

The funeral for my brother is going to be held on Wednesday in Adelaide. Bill, Melinda and I are heading of there on Tuesday and returning on the Thursday. Not looking forward to the trip, but I wouldn't miss being there to remember his wonderful life.
To all those wonderful people who have left messages, phones and sent cards, thankyou from the bottom of my heart. He certainly was a wonderful strong man who will be sadly missed. But as Janet said, His angel wings will be soaring over us and looking after us now and for eternity.
This morning went with Melinda to organise her bridesmaids dress and the flower girls dresses. They will all look absolutely fantastic.
The cake has been started and well on its way. After Thursday will be concentrating more on the wedding again, especially the cake.
Had our usual crop last night. We all had a wonderful time, I was a little subdued last night, and didn't feel the mojo to crop, but I have some wonderful ideas, especially of my brother. The others all did great work. Jenny announced that after the wedding and baby celebrations, we will be planning a weekend away. Yes just to scrap to your hearts content. But please be patient, it will have to wait for planning until AFTER the wedding and Jodie's had the baby.
I had better go as I have lots to arrange.
Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judy

RIP: Parkinson James Edward

Two Years, Two weeks and Three Days after being diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer and Doctors giving 6 months to live, My Wonderful Brother Jim, has passed away. He was a fighter and did her fight right up until the very last. James Edward Parkinson passed away 23rd February, 2007 at approx 5.55am.
Jim you meant the world to me. Your ideals were the ideals I would like to attain. You were strong and realistic. You were the life of the party. You were the Red wine drinker, the speach giver, the person who you could tell everthing and know that it wouldn't be passed on. Nothing was ever too much for you. You were the open ear, who would listen to everyone, but would then tell them what maybe they didn't want to hear, but then again maybe they did, but it was the truth. Some people didn't want to listen, but it was their loss in the end. You were a wonderful Son, Brother, Husband, and Father, and the best Grandpa Jim any child could ever wish for.
Your life over the past 14 years has been tumultuous. You eventualy realised that an unhappy marriage was not one that you stay in just becuase of the children. You stay because you want to stay. After 27 years of marriage it took you such a long time to realize this, but eventually you did. Your life with Janet was one of Love, and Music. This is not saying that all was red roses because I know it wasn't but the love you two shared was a bond that was amazing to see.
Whilst growing up, you were 11 years my senior, but even though you wanted to put me on the road and let a car run over me. I know you loved me. You tried to teach me my tables, unfortunately you didn't succeed. You taught me love, and fun.
I will always remember my 50th Birthday Party, you told me you couldn't come as money was tight, but then 1 hour before the party started, who should turn up on my doorstep, but my wonderful big brother. We partied into the early hours of the morning, but we were still bright enough the next day to continue. Then that big life of the party brother, picked up a tiny, delicate 2week old Cassie and with amazement kissed her on the head and said what a darling little angel you are. This showed me you were the strong, wine drinking, fun loving, macho man with the very tender, gentle side.
I love you and always have, and will miss our long talks and coffees, and of course drinks.
I will look after Mum just as we had talked of. Janet will still be on my telephone list and always will be.
Sleep peacefully my darling brother.
Love always
Keep smiling and Happy
you little flossie
Judy

Invitations are out......

Well that's one job done and only ??????? to go.
Posted the invitations today for the wedding. Organised the transport, booked the hens night and arranged the bus, picking up my outfit on Saturday. Still have to lose more weight, but I am not worried I am sure this will happen.
Having a Baby shower for Jodie on Sunday, so looking forward to that.
As you can see I have been really busy lately with the Wedding plans, baby expectations, shop and just me.
Tomorrow I am having another day off. It feels really strange have days off. but I think Jodie and I need them off.
The shopping centre has been really busy this week. Bilo in Hampton Park is changing to Coles and will reopen on Monday 19th February as Coles, watch the prices drop dramatically on Monday and then give it a week, watch them go up double.
I feel that I am in a rutt at the moment, I am not sure where I am. Maybe its just that I have so much to do. and just don't know where to start.
Maybe I should start at the beginning and white things down. That sound linke an idea. Sorry about my ramblings but I am talking to myself lol.
I spoke with my sister in law last night, and Jim (my brother) is still not really well, and is getting distressed. I suppose it would distress anyone when they know they are dying... Must keep up for the family. I love you Jim
I am going and may post more tomorrow when I am more refreshed.
Keep smiling and healthy.
L
Judy

All abou t me!!!!!

YOU.

• a cuddler? Yes i love a warm fuzzy cuddle, don't seem to get many lately.
• A morning person? Normally yes, but not after a late night I like my sleep.
• Are you a perfectionist? I like things done well, but not bodgy, if that's being a perfectionist, then I am a perfectionist
  
• Talented? I scrapbook and decorate cakes, lately I have being painting, maybe talented
• In your pajamas? No I got up at 11am and got dressed immediately
  
• Left handed? No.
  LAST....
• friend you saw: My friends at the crop night last night.
• Sent text: our accountant with info re Bas Statement...How boring
  LAST NIGHT.....
  
• wore: to bed? Old but comfortable nighty mu favourite
• made: Scrapped a page last night and then made a cup of tea this morning
  
• watched: some stupid quiz show on television at 2.30am today
  
• got any plans: working this weekend and then going to the aftermath of a Christening, missing the Church bit.....
  FAVOURITE...
• number: 7
• color: yellow but not to wear. This was my school house team color many long years ago.
• season: spring-not too hot and not too cold!
  CURRENTLY...
• .missing: time to spare to relax and enjoy life and spend with my family
  
• needing: sleep sleep, sleep sleep, oh forgot to stop, I nearly fell asleep.
  
• wanting: peace, for all
• Q's and A's
  
• q:first thing you did this morning: got up showered and got dressed
  
• q: last thing you ate: 2 dim sims
• q: do you have anything bothering you? YES people who say they will do something and don't and also those who are back stabbers. If you are a back stabber, please do not visit my blogg again, thankyou.
  
• q: what's the last movie you saw?: buggered if I can remember
  
• q: where is the last place you went? to Wally at the Hampton Park Hardware to get a key cut for the shop, but then that's another story. read jodies blogg for update on that. too long a story for me to post as well.
  
• q: do you wish upon stars? Yes, my Dad's on that star.
  
• q: are you a friendly person?: Yes…. My Kids are always telling me I talk toooooooo much.
  
• q: where did you sleep last night?: Thank God, in my own special water bed, and not in the shop ( Ready Jodies Blogg)
  
• q: what color shirt are you wearing? Red and white stripe t-shirt
  
• q: when was the last time you really cried? When I had bad news about my brother. (for those in the know he is still going but only just
• q: what was your last thought before you went to sleep? I just hope I sleep tonight.
• q: what are you about to do? work at the shop
  
• q: if you could drink anything right this second, what would it be? aLemon drink, I currently have one. But I wish it was a big glass of champagne.
• q: what's your job position called? Jack of all trades, and thats no kidding.
• q: what's your favorite month(s)? J January usually on Holidays, but unfortunatley not this year.
  
• q: what was your elementary school's mascot? Didn't have one
• q: what's your favorite bottled water? I think is is called tap water. I fill the bottle myself.
• q: what were you doing at 9pm last night? Scrapping with some wonderful people
  
• q: did you attend your high school prom? Had a formal, it was one that the nuns invited plenty of Boys along and they were one side of the room and the girls the other...How boring...
• q: did you go to someone else's prom? No They weren't really the rage way back then
  
• q: do you prefer coffee or tea? Tea mostly white, no sugar as I'm sweet enough.
• q: something to read within 5 feet? Scrapbook Creations..
  
• q: how much french do you know? Learnt french as school, but too long ago to remember.
• q: ever crash a car, been in an accident? yes, ran over a 1 year old boy running out onto the road. and as far as a crash with another car, 1, but he ran up my arse when he wasn't looking.
  
• q: do you look good in yellow? definately not, I look really sick
  
• q: do you sing? mostly to myself as no one else listens.
  
• q: ever sing in public? - When I was at school, I sang in the school productions. Bit too old and croaky now.
  
• q: least favorite color? Like most colors, but I suppose the least favourite would be orange (bright)
  
• q: ever had dippin dots? no.... what are they?.
  
• q: how many driving tickets have you had? not that many, can't say too much
• q: do you own your own house? not at the moment
  
• q: at what age did you/do you want to get married? married at 20. nearly 33 years ago
  
• q: have you ever been married? Yes am currently to a wonderful man who drives me completely insane. Tells me I didn't tell him something when I did. He needs to get his hearing tested..
  
• q: how many kids do you have/want? I have 3 children (two Girls and a boy) and 2.5 Grandchildren all girls.
  
• q: do you like anyone right now? plenty of fella's out there (for the girls in the shop Security) I really love all my family and friends.
  
• Chrissy and Connie you're both tagged!!

See you all next time
Remember if you a backstabber, no offence, but please no not visit my blogg again. You will all know who you are...... and I know you are visiting.
otherwise, thanks for visiting and
Keep smiling and healthy
L
Judy